A memorial service will be held on Saturday, December 9, 11:00 a.m. at South Haven Baptist Church 16800 Bel-Ray Blvd, Belton, MO 64012 with a visitation prior to the service from 10:00-11:00 a.m. at the church.
Gary was born in Kansas City, Missouri on August 30, 1953. The first-born son to Charles W. and Carolyn L. Buford with three brothers, Greg, Kent and Kevin. Gary was a graduate of Center High School and went on to further his education at UMKC graduating with his bachelor’s degree in criminal justice. After graduation, Gary was employed by the United States Postal Service as a mail carrier for 38 years until he retired in 2015. Gary met the love of his life, Melissa K. Smith and they were married in July of 1990. Together, they were blessed with a blended family of three children, Jeff, Adam & Lindsay. Gary grew up playing sports and was very passionate about volunteer coaching children. Gary volunteered at Harvesters and has always been a faithful church member serving as a deacon. He was a member of South Haven Baptist Church and would always serve when asked. Gary had a kind and quiet spirit and will be known for his love of God, family, church and of course the Kansas City Chiefs and Kansas City Royals.
Gary was preceded in death by his parents, Charles W. and Carolyn L. Buford; daughter Lindsay N. Smith; two brothers, Kevin C. Buford and Kent W. Buford
He is survived by his loving wife of 33 years Melissa K Buford; sons, Jeff Buford, Kansas City, Adam Buford, Tulsa, Oklahoma and grandson, Mason Buford, Raymore, as well as brother, Greg Buford, Kansas City. He also leaves behind a family of nieces, nephews, cousins and many, many friends.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Upward Sports Program at South Haven Baptist Church.
